Fall in love with money and create a healthy relationship that will last forever! In this episode, we take a Deeper Dive into exploring your relationship with money. I discuss specific strategies for making smart investments of your time and energy that will help you level up and make more money!
“I Love You, Money” is the third episode in the EmPOWERed BIZ Series – Coaching Women to Level UP! and Make More Money! The emPOWERed BIZ Series includes short, efficient, powerful episodes packed with information and lessons to Level UP! in your biz! As a psychologist, I help people reduce stress and welcome balance, peace, and joy. I am applying those psychological concepts and strategies to help you accomplish your professional goals – level up and make more money!!
In this episode, I discuss 4 key steps in the process of creating a healthy and enduring relationship with money. Remove energetic blocks and manifest the money you have always dreamed of! I offer specific action steps that you can do TODAY to get started! Stop playing small. Make a shift today that will get the ball rolling and move your energy towards your goals!!
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What is BLOCKING you from Making More Money?! Download my FREE guide to learn some common energetic BLOCKS that might be getting in your way of attracting the money you desire. *BONUS* - the guide includes tips to shift your energy TODAY so that you will Remove your Energetic Money BLOCKS and Attract the Money FLOW! (it’s FREE!): https://www.drlyz.com/empowered-biz
Episode 106 “emPOWERed BIZ: I Love You, Money!” Notes - Links and References:
The emPOWERed BIZ Series includes short, efficient, powerful episodes packed with information and lessons to Level UP! in your biz! We are applying psychological principles, concepts, and strategies to your goal of getting to the next level in your career, in your business to Make More Money!!
I am so excited to be here to help you level up - get excited, remove the blocks, and fly to the top of your game!
So far we have talked about removing money blocks, maintaining a healthy relationship with money, and making room in your life for money to flow to you.
A powerful part of that process includes aligning your energy - body, mind, heart, soul, and spirit - with your Values, Mission, and Vision.
Listen to the first two episode in the emPOWERed BIZ series:
“Make More Money!”: https://www.drlyz.com/blog/podcast-104
And “In It For The Money”: https://www.drlyz.com/blog/podcast-105
In this episode, we take a Deeper Dive into exploring your relationship with money. You may be inspired by something from this episode right now while you are listening, and also trust that you may work to collect the building blocks and tools provided and create your masterpiece in the days, weeks, and months to come. It is a process, embrace the journey.
Step 1: Take an Energy Inventory.
Pause, breathe, check in with your energy right now – self awareness is key.
If you don’t know what is getting in the way of accomplishing your dreams, you can’t remove the blocks
Body –notice any pressure, tension, comfort, excitement; use the breath
Mind – what is happening in your mind, what are your thoughts, when do you get distracted
(I keep a “Tangent Tablet” to help me stay on track, especially for these shorter episodes)
Heart – what are the emotions coming up for you in this moment?
Notice thoughts, sensations, emotions – don’t try to fight them – notice and embrace, you can process them now or acknowledge that you will come back to them later
Soul – what are your beliefs? Why are you here? Soul identity and story -
I love you money!
For the love of money - fall in love with money and stay in love with money! You and money, make it work, make it last.
What brought you here to this episode?
Spirit – Check in with your energy – spiritual, emotional, mental, physical – what are you carrying with you? What is it doing inside of you? How is it showing up in your relationships with others?
Cultivate a deeper relationship with yourself, throughout this process and you will be better able to show up wholly and genuinely for yourself and with your people and with your money.
Step 2: Take a Relationship Inventory.
Envision a current relationship in your life that is fulfilling, healthy and not overly complicated - a relationship that is built on a foundation of kindness, gratitude, respect, and love. This relationship can be a romantic partnership, a friendship, a family relationship.
Identify the shared Values, Mission, and Vision of you and your relationship partner.
Identify your differences (interests, personal strengths, hobbies, values, beliefs, etc.) that you can view as complementary.
In a healthy relationship, each partner invests energy, time and space for themselves, apart from each other and apart from the relationship. The partners also invest time and energy into nurturing the relationship.
This formula (our FUN! Love Formula) promotes a healthy balance in the relationship.
Time and space apart does not mean that something is wrong or that the relationship is in danger. Each partner invests energy-time, emotions, money, etc. in the relationship, and the partners hold space together for themselves, for each other, and for the relationship.
For more on the FUN Love! Formula: Podcast Episode 80 - Life|Work Passion+Balance: Introducing the FUN Love! Formula: https://www.drlyz.com/blog/podcast-80
Download the FUN Love! Formula for FREE!: https://www.drlyz.com/fun-love
Step 3: Tune In To Your Energy Flow.
Begin with your breath and notice the cycle of flow, similar to the flow and cycle of money.
Check in and recognize the dynamic – fill up with breath, pause at the top, knowing that you are letting the breath go and you have faith and trust that it will come back in to sustain you, to bring you life.
You know that this is a cycle, you know that this is what happens because you have seen it happen before; you have faith and trust that the cycle will continue.
In the same way:
Money comes in and money goes out.
You share time and energy and space with your partner, your friend, and with money and there are times that you go your separate ways, enjoying time and space apart.
There is enough breath in the world, there is an overabundant amount of money, love, and joy in the world.
The more that you give, the more you receive – love, money – generously and strategically aligned with your Values, Mission, and Vision – with faith, knowledge, and trust that it is coming back – It does and it will!
Step 4: Create a Healthy Flow In Your Relationship With Money.
Evaluate your current relationship with money.
How are you using unhealthy relationship strategies with money? – avoidance, conflict, ignoring, disrespect, anger, etc.
What old wounds, life experiences, memories, previous relationships, and scars sneak up and affect your relationship with money? Sometimes our scars prickle.
How are you showing up for money? Make the time for yourself and for money and for your relationship with money – to understand the conflict, to explore where the blocks are coming from.
Use the FUN Love! Formula to cultivate a healthy and fulfilling relationship with money.
When money doesn’t feel safe, comfortable, and loved it is less likely to show up in your life (like people!!!).
FREE Resource - We have talked about Removing Money Blocks, Nurturing a Healthy Relationship with Money, and Making Room in your Life for More Money!! What is stopping you from making money and what can you do to get rid of the energetic blocks and make room for more money to come into your life!
Link to learn more and download your free guide:
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What is BLOCKING you from Making More Money?!
Download my FREE guide to learn some common energetic BLOCKS that might be getting in your way of attracting the money you desire. *BONUS* - the guide includes tips to shift your energy TODAY so that you will Remove your Energetic Money BLOCKS and Attract the Money FLOW! (it’s FREE!) https://www.drlyz.com/empowered-biz